by Bisi Adewale
Some ladies complain that their husband's demand for s*x is too frequent. You feel his crave for s*x is similar to his need for food and you can't help but wonder if s*x is the only thing he thinks about. To be frank with you, your complaints are all other wives. This therefore shows that men and women in the areas of s*x are wired differently. With these variations in mind, all you need to do is to know how men see s*x and understand how to relate with your own man.
- S*x is one thing husbands would ask more of. Almost all husbands wish their wives can step up their s*xual abilities and give them more at “bed time”.
Your husband's case is not different. Ask him and you will be surprised he is likely to be among the 92% of men who say they want more of s*x.
- S*x of yesterday is for yesterday. While you are still enjoying the fulfillment of yesterday's s*x, your “lover boy” is already thinking of how to get another one. Remember, every man has a s*x drive that is stronger than the average woman.
- A man's s*x drive is one of his strongest drives. You need to know that only a few things matter to a man than his s*x life and the s*x drive is stronger than any other “drive” in his body. This is the reason nothing really matters to most men whenever they want s*x.
- Every man wants his wife to be romantic and involved in bed. No man will love to have a “bedroom failure”. No matter how religious they are, they want romantic, exciting and tantalizing wives.
- He needs routine s*xual gratification the same way his wife needs routine acts of love, care and kindness. Just as you want him to be kind to you; he also wants you to be available in bed regularly. Crises arise when the wife wants the act of kindness before s*x and the man wants s*x before an act of kindness. My word for you wife is; break the cycle. Give him enough s*x, and see if he won't show you more love and care.
- Men are moved by what they see. Let your husband be attracted to you. Never allow his secretary to take your position; dress nicely. If you are alone in the house put on skimpy dresses, s*xy underwears; let him be moved towards you. Dress up in front of him. Make it “The-more-you-look-the-more-you-see” affair. Dress slowly to the extent that he will notice you. You are in your palace, “you own your husband”.
- Wants the wife to be actively involved in s*x. Almost 90% of men said they will be more motivated if their wives can get involved in the bedroom. They said unanimously that they hate “dry and drab” women in their bedrooms.
Your man wants you to be involved during fore-play and love making. He wants you to roll your body, turn, raise your laps, roll your but-tocks, hold him, put your bre*st in his mouth, moan, talk, gibber and show that you are really enjoying him. Make him feel like a real man.
- Men are more aroused when their wives seduce them. Most men enjoy s*xual invitations. Surprise your man by inviting him; become the “seducer” and see how happy he will be with you. Don't be ashamed to flirt with your husband; be his mistress, his concubine.
- More than 70% of men want s*x at least 2 or 3 times a week, while more than 60% of women want s*x 2 or 3 times a month. This is where wisdom comes in for you as a woman. If you must keep your man, protect your home and send strange women far from your husband, then you must learn how to improve your bedroom performance. Be among the 40 % of women enjoying better relationships with their husbands.
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on [email protected], 08068312004, 08051512823, BB Channel: C0032D398, Blog: www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale. [email protected] forum: www.familyparliament.com